Judging vs Gossiping
Before I start this blog entry , I would like everyone to know the difference between
" Judging " & " Gossiping "
" Judging " & " Gossiping "
Judging : to form and opinion or conclusion about something / somone
Gossiping : idle talk or rumor especially about personal / private affairs
I shall start the blog entry now.
It all started on Sunday , 9 Nov . I was at Causeway Point with my parents to re-contract one of their line and get the Iphone6+. The waiting time was freaking long so we decided to head Burger King for a short break and get something to drink. I was queuing in line waiting to place my order when two girls , one of them had really light bb cream, foundation and alot of blusher on when she had a dark complexion ( not trying to be racist ) she also had really light blue shimmering eye-shadow and maybe dark eyeliner applied plus I guess her hair was suppose to be blonde in color but she was too lazy to put on the toner to keep it blonde and it turned yellow overtime . Her friend had a piercing on the upper lip and her lower jaw was sort of jutted out she had almost the same makeup on as her friend . Both of the woman were wearing kinda revealing clothes which they should not be wearing since its considered a sin in their religon
Both of them entered Burger King and queued up behind us to order their food. I obviously turned around a few times to look at them . I guess they got pretty pissed off about it but come on lah , you come out of your house with that kind of face, hair and dress style who wouldn't look ? So I guess the shorter of the two started telling her friend about me looking at her and when it was almost my turn to order , the short woman came up behind me and said " gossip ah , gossip somemore . so young want to gossip . " I got pretty pissed off at that sentence because hello ? which ear did you hear me gossip about you ? The left or the right side ? but knowing that if I were to turn around and say something back , SHE would obviously start a fight or something. So I kept my cool and walked to the counter to place my order but that wasn't the end of it. When she was walking to the counter to take her order, her friend or her, decided that it would be nice to kick my shoes.
She also said something about having white hair. Hello ? Look at yourself first before talking about someone's flaws. Who is the one that walked out of the house with that kind of make up , shoes and clothes? YOU. So what rights do YOU have to talk about my flaws or anyone's flaws when YOU yourself have to dress up like that with makeup before you can actually step out of the house. Karma will get you and since you talked about having white hair at such a young age, I guess you'll probably have strands of white hair before you hit 35? or are you already 40 and above ? thats why you have to apply that type of makeup before heading out. I ranted on twitter about it that evening because I really cannot with them =_=
If you're going to walk out of your house like that , chances are you're gonna get judged by 99% of the people you see outside. And I take it as since you're wearing that kind of makeup and clothes, you're obviously looking for attention but when I gave it to you and looked at you for a few times, you got mad and said that I was gossiping. oh please you should be glad that I turned around and looked at you. No guys in the entire population of singapore will even glance at you , even if they do , they're probably judging you.. and both of them have boyfriends , I am 80% sure that their boyfriends regretted their decision and are embarrassed of hanging out with them. Like who wouldn't? If I'm a guy and my girlfriend goes out with me dressed up like them, I will breakup with her. And I'm guessing both of the woman education level is not that high since they used the word "gossiping" instead of "judging". I have better things to do than gossip about you. This blog post isn't even me gossiping about them. Its about me telling my blog readers about them publicly so I wouldn't call it "gossiping"
Next time , if you don't want anyone to judge you , kindly don't put on that makeup to make your face even uglier ... and please wear something your religion allows you to wear. Please also remember to apply toner to your hair to keep the color blonde ( if it was meant to be )
End ~
xoxo,
satan
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